An Excellent Marriage Is Possible

by John Greene

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones.”  –  Proverbs 12:4, NKJV

family strife stressHow quick we are to bring the world into our marriage. When we disagree or fight, how tempting it is to bring the horror of the world into our lives instead of applying Bible principles in marriage or to actually make the effort to live in peace and harmony. Instead, the world promotes that we become selfish sociopaths that declare personal entitlement and rights. The world proclaims that we are to live every feeling that comes down the lane as our personal birthright. That is not what scriptural Christian marriage is about, but how Christians have forgot about such matters! Instead, millions of ‘devoted Christians’ have elected to bring in law enforcement and family courts into their lives “because we can’t get along.”  That is the fruit of the world and nothing more. (“Modern Society and Obsolete Marriage“; “The Modern Life Culture Crisis“; “Divorce: Modern Family & the Authority of Law“)

The world has made divorce easy and the stigma of divorce has been reduced to nothing at all in the name of the pursuit of happiness and the rights of the broken family. Is the world any happier and is the family prospered by your selfish tendencies and desires? Is your family or your prospering due to your selfishness, even your desire to control and rule? (“Family Stress Affects Generations“; “Prospering Your Family“)

How easily we enter into a covenant of marriage today with lies, secrets, soul ties and demonic strongholds and how quickly we give up on marriage when we don’t get our way. That isn’t Christianity, nor is it Christian and it isn’t the Bible. Certainly, we live in an imperfect, strife-ridden world. So what are you going to do? Are you going to deny your faith with the idea that you can simply get your life together later? Are you going to live your life the way the world says? Are you listening to the Will of Elohim [‘God’, YHWH]  in your marriage? Nobody is suggesting that you endure years of abuse or die at the hand of your spouse in the Name of Elohim. What are you doing to make your marriage work beyond walking the other way? (Ephesians 5, Hebrews 2) Are you bringing shame to your marriage and to your Elohim, to the Way of Messiah? Do you care? (“Strongholds & the Armor of YHWH“; “Submission in Marriage“; “The Garden of the Marriage Relationship“)

YHWH calls both husband and wife to be made ‘excellent’ through His Word. This isn’t about sin, but about love between husband, wife AND YHWH, a holy tie of three. We are not to harden our hearts like the Pharisees and those in the world of man.  (Matthew 19:3-9) That is what you need to be thinking about before you bring the world and worldly ways into your holy covenant without first actively seeking YHWH and working together to prosper your marriage.

Is the peace of security of the world what you seek?

Is the peace & security of the world what you seek?

Is the peace of God in marriage what you seek?

Is peace  in marriage what you seek?

“For YHWH so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
John 3:16, RNKJV
Heavenly Father,
Thank you for sending the Messiah, your only begotten Son to be my Savior. I believe in Him and have made this belief the center of my life. Because of this, by faith I have everlasting life! Thank you! I repent of my sins and of my past, freely admitting that I have fallen short of Your glory. I look fully forward to you in my life and commit my life to You. Thank You YHWH, my Heavenly Father for setting me free in the name of your Son Yahshua [Jesus]. Amen.
genuine-articleYou will never enjoy true freedom through the Messiah and power of the Holy Spirit unless you read and absorb the Bible in prayer and trust. You will never know this freedom until you experience it for yourself. Get to know your Heavenly Father, His Son and allow the Holy Spirit to work in your life. The Holy Spirit is your teacher, your Holy Counselor that lives in you to help you learn about the truth of YHWH and His spiritual gifts.
Satan does not want you to have the excellence of YHWH in your life. People pray for protection and want to be taken care of, but often do little in growing close to Him. The world, your husband, your wife, your family, your government do not build your trust in YHWH or free you from spiritual bondage. Your church or your pastor cannot save you. Education, power and money will not free you, but only the Word of your Heavenly Father. Salvation is a daily walk, an act of love for yourself and for those around you, not a one-time event that centers only on you. Make the Word of YHWH your own, your very life!
YHWH is Yahweh, the covenant name of your Heavenly Father.
The names Yahshua and Yahushua are original language names for Jesus,
He is often referred simply as the Messiah or Master.
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